10 Things To Know About Dating A Woman Who Has Been Single For A Long-Ass Time.

1. She'll Sometimes Forget She's Not Flying Solo She may forget that she's part of the equation right now, and agree to help someone move without checking in with you. Being single for an extended period forms some very strong habits, and she's used to acting alone without giving a thought to anybody else. 2. She Can Do It Herself It's not that she doesn't think you're fully capable of helping her, it's just that she got used to doing everything, and that includes car repairs and the drip in the kitchen sink. 3. You Need To Take It Slow It isn't that she's not into you — she's just not looking for anyone to put a ring on it right now. Think of it as the opposite of needy. 4. She's Used To Having Things Her Way She's not against change — she just needs to ease into it. She'll see that your way of organizing the spice rack by flavors makes a kind of sense, and she may choose to adopt it. 5. You Wonder If You're Dating The Longtime Single Or Her Friends Every time you do something together, one or more of her friends comes along for the ride. Her friends are protective and don't want to see her get hurt. Once everyone is convinced you're not a lying, cheating jerk, you'll probably see less of the friends, aka the heart patrol. 6. Formerly Single People Need Their Space Don't be insulted if she doesn't need to see you all the time. She's used to spending a lot of time alone, and she needs that time to decompress and get her head on straight. 7. You May Have To Convince Her That You're For Real All that time being alone and observing other people's relationships may make her a little unsure that you really are into her. She's trying to figure your motives out, and make sure you don't want to just catch and release her as romantic sport. 8. She's Very Strong She may not be used to asking for or receiving help. Though she may not say it, she's grateful when you step in and lend a helping hand — just don't take over as if she's helpless. 9. She's Developed A Hard Protective Shell You'll get to know the many different aspects to her personality. Sure, she's super strong, but she can still be vulnerable and open. 10. You Might Get Crowded Out Of The Bed She's not used to sharing a bed, and may stretch out well onto your side You don't mind sleeping all curled up, do you? A woman who has been single for a long time, doesn't need you, but that isn't to say that she doesn't want or care for you. As time goes on, and your relationship starts to deepen, some of these walls will come down and you'll appreciate having such an independent woman in your life.