It's not always about you

Everyone from family and friends etc go through situations and issues that is part of life. We all make mistakes because it just happens, people need to be aware of family members and friends and how they deal with situations and how they treat people it usually isn’t the message it is how the message is delivered and the tone of voice and the body language as to how issues get resolved without devastating other people’s feelings. I was always told treat and talk to people how you want to be treated to some people that does not mean anything there are people who will always carry grudges no matter what forgiveness and letting go is a lot healthier. Watch your words and actions, watch your thoughts about someone elses mistakes, think before you judge, in the first place be fair, be honest and true. Shallowness creates trouble. Talking about someone at their back is called backbiting. Never indulge in creating issues, murmurings just because of a simple mistake which could be settled. Mature – minded people will never be angry for a CONSTRUCTIVE criticism. They accept correction so don’t judge. Don’t be a trouble maker. We are only responsible for our own actions. It all starts and ends with us.